I get so wrapped up in my battle with cancer that I sometimes forget that Lee has needs as well. While my Bucket List is super-important to me, I have, until recently, never asked Lee about her Bucket List. Shouldn’t we try to accomplish both hers and mine? After all, she may not be around for many more years.

We are now in the process of merging our Bucket Lists and trying to manage to satisfy both of us in the few years that I have left. I have to remember that compromise is the key to make both of us happy in the time remaining.

Over the next few days, I will try to explore our revised Bucket Lists and announce plans to handle both Lee’s and mine.